I'm sickened

I'm sorry.... I meant for this blog to be a fun, release from everyday life so us ladies could sink our teeth into an atmosphere of safe, protected life.  I, like many others have read or seen the news on the California salon murders.  I was just reading my local paper and read the devastating news.  The funny thing is, I was in the middle of a fight with my man.  Turns out, he was slightly unhappy that dinner wasn't ready in a timely matter this evening.  Now now.... He and I have been in a long standing relationship where both adults have worked and traded the nightly dinner duties because until recently, we both worked full time.  Tonight happened to be my night and I became preoccupied with neighborly chatter and fun before I realized it was past 8 and dinner hadn't been started.  He was not happy.  Now, I believe in taking care of your man, however, I am no on demand chef and since these late nights don't happen often, I was quite vocally offended by his displeasure.  We haven't spoken since before dinner was served.  I find myself online, very physically showing my annoyance....and what do I read?  A man walked into his ex-wife's place of business and not only kills her, but other innocent people.  I can't at any point wrap my head around this.  All I can think of is the poor little soul that has to grow up without his mother and all because of his father's hand.  I just don't understand and it brings and surprising stream of tears to my face.  Life is just too short to fight over dinner.